• Why is Signing Up for Medicare So Complicated?

    I turn 65 in August, which means I’m enrolling in Medicare for the first time.

    OMG, I had no idea how confusing it would be.

    Even with several AARP “how to sign up for Medicare” webinars…even with a knowledgeable broker I’ve worked with for years…even with a healthcare-savvy, detail-oriented sister whose husband has been on Medicare for nearly two decades…even with the fact that I’ve written brochures about health insurance, including Medicare.

    Does it really need to be so complicated?

    First, there’s the timing of my “initial enrollment period,” which I wouldn’t have even known about if my broker hadn’t reached out to me.

    Then there’s Original Medicare, which I think is also called traditional Medicare. Offered through the federal government and accepted by most doctors, it’s made up of Part A to cover hospital costs, and Part B to cover doctor visits and outpatient services.

    There’s also Medicare Advantage, sometimes called Part C, which is an “all in one” alternative to Original Medicare. If I understand correctly, it limits out-of-pocket expenses, while Original Medicare does not.

    Which coverage is right for me depends on my health, my doctors, the insurance my doctors accept, where I live, where I travel and my financial situation. All things that are up in the air.

    Oh, and don’t forget Part D for the drugs I’m likely to need in the years. And what about a Medigap policy which helps pay for out-of-pocket costs? Do I need one of them? If so, how much does it cost?

    And of course there are enrollment deadlines. Miss them, and I’ll have to pay more.

    I could go on and on. I imagine many of you reading this could as well. I also imagine some of you have good advice to offer. If so, please share.

    3 responses to “Why is Signing Up for Medicare So Complicated?

    1. Ann Coleman Avatar

      It is unbelievably complicated, just like trying to do taxes. And the thing is, there’s no reason for it to be. If they really want “medicare for all,” they first need to make it actually accessible. Signing up for insurance shouldn’t be rocket science.

    2. Eliza Waters Avatar

      We’re the same age (I was born in October), so facing the same daunting hurdle. WHY do they have to make it so complicated indeed. Like reading tax codes!

    3. Elle Avatar
      Elle

      Hi, Bev. I feel your pain. I had to wade through that in December and still don’t know if I did what I needed to do. Many local community colleges offer a continuing ed class on this. As do many libraries and even church organizations. I’d hunt around for someone to take your hand and walk you through it specific to your needs. It doesn’t seem like a one-size-fits-all. Best of luck. Wish I had more advice.

  • Three Books at Once

    As a readaholic, I love getting lost in a story, whether fiction or memoir. A recent Strib article discussed reading two novels at once as a hedge against running out of books. Being without a book to read is terrible, but that’s not why I’ve begun reading several at once.

    For years, I read one book at a time, diligently plowing through like the good English major I was. Not only did I read one at a time, but I also doggedly finished what I started. 

    Now those rules don’t hold me. If I don’t enjoy a book I ditch it. Life’s too short to read books I don’t like. Especially since there are so many books I can’t wait to read (The Family Chao by Lan Samantha Chang, The Pages by Hugo Hamilton, Libertie by Kaitlyn Greenridge).

    Several things changed my habits.

    Thanks to my two books groups, I’ve read and enjoyed many books I might not have picked up on my own (e.g., We Have Always Lived in a Castle by Shirley Jackson, Grace by Paul Lynch). However, sometimes I’m lukewarm about the chosen book. I read it to be a good sport, but I start another book for fun. 

    Occasionally, I choose difficult books because I want to be better informed about race, aging, Millennials, or whatever. I’m committed to reading them and I learn a lot, but they’re not plow-through-able. Weighty subjects need to be taken in smaller doses. In between, there’s the pleasure of fiction. 

    I’ve also taken this approach with recent Nobel prize winners (The Buried Giant by Kazuo Ishiguro, The Last Gift by Abdulrazak Gurnah) and classic literature I read so long ago I’ve forgotten it (Jane Eyre by Charlotte Bronte). I read a little and mull it over, read some more.

    COVID and the heaviness of the world in the last six years have changed my habits. Being pinned in place away from my usual activities heightened my need for escape. The Pleasing Hour by Lily King and Perestroika in Paris by Jane Smiley took me away when I couldn’t travel.

    Often my concentration has been undermined in COVID-times, so I alternated literary fiction with mysteries/thrillers (State of Terror by Hillary Rodham Clinton and Louise Penny) or lighter stories (This Close to Okay by Leesa Cross-Smith, The Book That Matters Most by Ann Hood).

    A more recent phenomenon also supports my changed reading habits. Some nights I’m inexplicably sleepless for an hour or more. Then having several books to choose from helps.

    Now I’m unapologetic and unfussed about reading several books at once: (Hell of a Book by Jason Mott, Smoke Gets in Your Eyes and Other Lessons from the Crematory by Caitlin Doughty, Emma by Jane Austen). 

    How do you approach reading?

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    15 responses to “Three Books at Once”

    1. Bev Bachel Avatar

      I used to read one book from start to finish before starting a new one. Now I have several going at one time…usually a nonfiction book and a literary novel that I’m reading + a lighter novel or mystery that I’m listening to. While I do sometimes read actual books, I do appreciate the fact that Overdrive/Kindle makes it easy to enlarge the type and adjust the lighting so I can read in bed and pretty much anywhere else.

      1. Ellen Shriner Avatar

        We have similar reading habits— I read more on Kindle/Overdrive for the same reasons.

    2. Luanne Avatar

      We Have Always Lived in the Castle is one of my all-time favorite novels. I loved it as a teen, and I still love it. I often read more than one book at once. I thought it was because of my ADD and how I always have to have more than one thing going on at once. I hear you on quitting a book. I quit the first Harry Potter, but when I was forced back into it by my students, I liked it. It just gets off to a slow start IMO. And I quit Olive Kitteridge. I know it’s acclaimed. But I just couldn’t stumble through it.

      1. Luanne Avatar

        And yet I’ve read and enjoyed Joyce’s Ulysses hahahahaha.

        1. Ellen Shriner Avatar

          You’ve got me on that one! For me, it was enough to know the concept of Ulysses. I liked Dubliners and Portrait of the Artist a lot, though.

        2. Luanne Avatar

          Yes, me too. I took Ulyssess slowly and made notes. It helps to follow the thread of pee throughout . . . .

        3. Ellen Shriner Avatar

          😆 good to know!

    3. Ann Coleman Avatar

      I prefer one book at a time, but sometimes I do read more than one, for the reasons you listed. Sometimes a book is too badly written, or heavy to be read quickly, and find alternating it with a book I really enjoy helps. But aside from my book club, I rarely read books that I don’t like anymore!

      1. Ellen Shriner Avatar

        Agreed! Life’s too short😁

    4. Debra Avatar

      I’m impressed. I fall asleep after 3 pages, much less tackle 3 books!

      1. Ellen Shriner Avatar

        I fall asleep after 3 pages at bedtime too 😁

    5. Carole Duff Avatar

      Usually one book at a time. Sometimes I skim to finish. Yes, life is made of time, and I have been known to ditch.

      1. Ellen Shriner Avatar

        It’s fun to hear what everyone does!

    6. Eliza Waters Avatar

      There are so many books that interest me that I order from the library and if popular, may take weeks or months to come available. Sometimes several come in at once and that is probably why I’ve started reading multiple books at once. I love fiction for carrying me away (books are magic carpets don’t you think?), so I have to have at least one on my table, but there are many non-fiction books these days that I want to learn from. Three going at once is about the limit… it gets too complicated beyond that!

      1. Ellen Shriner Avatar

        I get almost all of my books from the library and I’ve had that experience too—where they all come in at once.

  • Sometimes

    “She’s staring again,” Juan Jose’ remarked to Crystel on Tuesday. The three of us were dining at Pizza Luce. The 19-year-olds sat across from me. I was looking past them, merely looking, not staring at all, at the people coming in the door, the servers rushing into the kitchen, dodging for silverware, the water pitcher, the food that was ordered.

    Crystel shook her head back and forth, “She always does that, you know that.”

    It could be a girl Crystel’s age that will pull me back to the horror of being raped. A toddler sitting on my lap, dozing, her limbs a rag doll. Trusting. Safe. No worries. What would she have to worry about? She’s 2 years old. At 4, adorned in colorful scarves, beads, and unmatched socks. A Jasmine Princess at 5. Loving Johnny Depp at 8. Being the first to jump in the pool, the first to ride her bike, the first…

    “I’m writing stories,” I say in my defense.

    I’m studying people. Their familial relationships. Body language. Emotional state. Piercings. Tattoos. Eye contact.

    That morning I studied a photo of a 10-year-old Wisconsin girl. She had long brown hair, parted in the middle, smiling eyes, smooth face. She looked happy.

    I pictured the 14-year-old who raped and killed her. How much bigger he would have been than her. His height, weight, and strength. My stomach tightened.

    I was her.

    8 years old
    8 years old.

    The young girl with a smooth face. Smiling.

    I was no match for a 14-year-old.

    My four older siblings just kept getting older. And I would always be the younger.

    The running track already set. An oval that I would run round and round.

    Never getting away.

    I asked for help when I was 9. I was afraid. They were bigger. I needed help.

    None was forthcoming. I became that 10-year-old. Only I didn’t die.

    It lives within me. The assaults. The rapes.

    The watching of others.

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    One response to “Sometimes”

    1. Bev Bachel Avatar
      Bev Bachel

      A powerful post that brought tears to my eyes.


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