• September Glory

    My clock resets itself September. One August morning the temperature barely cracks fifty and I start thinking about the back to school ads and replenishing my studio writing supplies. When the air suggests jeans and a long-sleeve shirt, the sense of pure potential tricks my mind into pulling together a short story submission calendar. Kids wearing new shoes on their way to the playground reminds me my old backpack is in fine condition, but maybe a new leather bag might refresh fall clothes?

    Heading back to school as a student or teacher for almost three decades has hard-wired an unexplainable sense of optimism each year when school buses begin traveling through our neighborhood. It’s easier to daydream about new directions for characters or plots when golf courses slow down, weeding gardens gives way to yanking annuals and high temperatures fade. In this month of transition, I look forward to sitting at my desk and making the most of the year which begins in the ninth month on the calendar.

    January’s short days are made for serious stuff like cleaning closets, balancing finances, planning home repairs or starting diets, but the bright green days of September remind me I am still very much alive and hungry to learn and try new things. This is the time to read those community education booklets, sign up for dance class, buy a pile of books, begin a progressive dinner group. Anything that will keep you energized while minimizing January…and February.and March.

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    One response to “September Glory”

    1. Eliza Waters Avatar

      I like the idea of a progressive dinner party group. Even a monthly potluck at alternating hosts’ homes sounds like a great thing to do during the ‘hibernation months.’

  • Seen and Heard

    Recently, I was reminded that seemingly small moments can have a lasting impact. My mother-in-law told me about her visit with a local librarian. They got to know each other, and now the librarian chooses books for her as part of a library outreach program for people who don’t drive. Although the librarian came only once, her visit meant a lot to my mother-in-law.

    Every now and again, acquaintances tell me about a time when something I said or did came at exactly the right time. Often, I’m surprised because I don’t remember the moment and wasn’t aware that I’d had any special impact. With that in mind, I try to be gracious when someone I don’t know well wants to talk. Maybe they need to be heard.

    I love good tomatoes and there’s one vendor I look for at the St. Paul Farmer’s Market, because his tomatoes are consistently good. We have a nodding acquaintance—we know each other’s faces, but not each other’s names.

    The last time I saw him, he asked me if I liked the Tennessee Ernie Ford song that the market’s musical entertainer had just played. I agreed that it was a good oldie and recalled that a neighbor friend’s mother used to play it on the stereo.

    Then the tomato vendor told me he loves to sing, and he sang a little of the song in a surprisingly rich bass. I complimented him, and he explained that when he was young, a voice teacher taught him to breathe properly. Now he shows the guys in his church choir how to breathe so they won’t strain their voices when they try to sing bass.

    As I walked away, I realized that after our longer-than-expected conversation, I had a fuller sense of him as a person. I don’t know if the conversation meant anything to him or not. Maybe he needed to be seen, wanted someone to know that tomato farming was just one dimension of his life. Or maybe he was just bored and feeling chatty.

    Either way, I’m glad I listened. There’s a gift to me in that.

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    5 responses to “Seen and Heard”

    1. Ann Coleman Avatar

      Yes, we never now the true impact we make on others. Which is an excellent reason for being patient and kind with whomever we encounter!

      1. Ellen Shriner Avatar

        Thanks cor your comments, Ann!

    2. bbachel Avatar

      Another heartwarming post .. one that makes me want to be a better person. And you are so right, we never do know how what we say impacts others. Years ago I wrote a heartfelt letter to a friend. She never acknowledged it. Then, years later, when a group of us friends were gathered at a cabin, she mentioned my letter … she said she’d put it in her safe deposit box and told her mom she wanted it read at her funeral. I’m no longer in touch with that friend but I like knowing that my words once touched her in a meaningful way. And please know your words, even when I don’t make a point of acknowledging them, often do the exact same for me.

      1. Ellen Shriner Avatar

        Bev, I’m not surprised your friend reacted the way she did— you’re such a thought-full and thoughtful person.

    3. Eliza Waters Avatar

      We rarely know how we touch each others’ lives. It feels good to know some small gesture or remark helped someone in a meaningful way. Even if it is only a smile shared when they really needed it.

  • Climbing Mountains

    My morning stretch.

    My leg was stretched in the roll cradle when the Technical Manager came through the warehouse door.

    “No problem here” he said. Not even questioning why a Human Resources Manager would be in the warehouse with her leg raised in the air.

    He kept walking until he heard my tussling. “Do you need help?”

    “Yeah, my foot is stuck.”

    He walked back to me. Smiled. Lifted my foot from where it had gotten wedged into the crook of the iron.

    “No problem here,” he said and continued on.

    The next day, I was in the warehouse swinging my leg to reach an upright when the Maintenance Manager came by.

    “Beth, don’t hurt yourself,” he said.

    “You guys must have moved these uprights. I could reach them last week.” He chuckled.

    I’m aging. I’ll be 60 years old next month. I still want to climb mountains.

    My afternoon stretch.

    I’m finding that I’m not as limber or flexible, and it’s harder to keep the weight off. At my last physical, I told the doctor that even though I’m biking every day, my weight is exactly the same.

    “It doesn’t matter how much you bike,” she said. “At your age it’s about what you eat. You have to eat less.”

    I paused for a moment. “Well, that’s not going to happen,” I said. “I like to eat.”

    She finished injecting cortisone in my right knee. I have osteoarthritis in both knees. It is a degenerative “wear-and-tear” type of arthritis that occurs most often in people 50 years of age and older.

    When I hear of someone who has had a knee replaced, my attention sharpens.

    I’m afraid of not being able to climb mountains.

    On the summit of the Upper Mayan Trail with our guide Alex.

    I’m a 2nd Dan Tae Kwon Do Black Belt but haven’t been able to attend classes for a couple of years. I’ve run at least 7 marathons but haven’t run at all for at least a year. I believe I should do the things I can do. I can bike. I can stretch. I can climb mountains …. sometimes.

    My goal on our Guatemala trip this June was to hike the Upper Mayan Trail, hiking from the shores of Lake Atilan to Solola. Close to 3000 ft. elevation gain in 4 miles. A very steep trail, with beautiful scenery, and several encounters with local Mayan carrying firewood on their back or working in the fields.

    Jody and Crystel led the way, turning from time, encouraging me on. Juan Jose’ and our guide Alex were there with a helping hand. What a gift to have my son reach his hand out to take mine. And, a guide, our friend, who is such a wonderful role model for our children.

    I’m aging. There is beauty and grace in that.

    Note: the featured image is Juan Jose’, Alex, and Crystel standing on the precipice of the Upper Mayan Trail.

     

     


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