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“Guess what I’m reading,” 12-year old Crystel says.
First, I try the vanilla genres, “Fiction, non-fiction, memoir, science fiction, fantasy?”
She shakes her head no every time.
What else is there?
“Dark Romance,” she says. Her eyes light up.
Oh, my, I think. “Books let you read anything you want,” I say, thinking of Fifty Shades of Grey, by E.L. James and wondering what she IS reading.
I have a 1 ½ hour round trip drive to work thus my book reading has become books on tapes. Jody noticed Fifty Shades in the car. She raised her eyebrows.
“Don’t push Play when the kids are in the car,” I said.
Fifty Shades ended up too spicy. I returned the trilogy to the library. How much flavoring can one take? Jody’s happy if I hold her hand.
12-year old Antonio reads Pokémon from back cover to front. “I like reading different stories about Red the Trainer,” he said.
Recently, he’s been downloading the series onto his IPod to read.
I’ve not read a single page of Pokémon. I don’t enjoy graphic novels. It reminds me of the funnies. In my family of 14, the funnies were prime reading material on Sunday mornings. I avoided any tussling by turning my back on the colorful newspaper that would be shredded by noon.
I don’t read fantasy or science fiction either. Give me the real stuff. Memoir, non-fiction, and fiction based on truth.
One evening, Antonio held up a thick book. “Look what I’m reading,” he said.
The heftiness of the book surprised me. What could hold his interest that long?
He laughed. “It has lots of pictures in it.” He had found Wonderstruck by Brian Selznick in his school library. Not that he went to the libary on his own volition. He needed a book for reading prep.
“Ta dah!” I’m sure he exclaimed after perusing the pages.
I asked if the illustrations reminded him of his own pencil drawings. “Nope,” he said. There goes that elevated thought.
After finishing Wonderstruck he found The Invention of Hugo Cabret by the same author.
Antonio doesn’t know (or care) that the book won the 2008 Caledcott Medal, the first novel to do so.
With 284 pictures within the book’s 526 pages, the book depends as much on its pictures as it does on the words.
Selznick himself has described the book as “not exactly a novel, not quite a picture book, not really a graphic novel, or a flip book or a movie, but a combination of all these things.”
“Guess what page I’m on?” Crystel says in the car, on the couch, in her bedroom, as she makes her way through her dark romance.
“How did you find this book?” I asked her.
“When I was on Utube I clicked a thing on Ellen and Twilight.”
“I learned enough about the characters that when I went to our school library and saw the series, I picked it up. They didn’t have the first book, Twilight but they had New Moon. I read a little from the middle and there were no words that I didn’t know. And this cat is so cute. I’m reading Eclipse now.”
The four Twilight books have consecutively set records as the biggest selling novels for children.
Even so, I’m not interested in reading the series. It’s not my genre.
Is the lesson here that parents can model reading but not the genre?
11 responses to “On Loving (and Losing) Pets”
You once again manage to put it all out there and retain perspective at the same time, Ellen. If Rugby (feline, age 21) and Aldo (feline, age 14) hadn’t gone when they were ready, we may not have taken The Rambler (feline, age 2-3) inside last month to join our remaining menagerie. I had to consider losing him one day, too, that is if he doesn’t outlive me! It’s coincidental that The Rambler looks as if he could be the Love Child of Rugby and Aldo. Or is it? 😉
I know it’s been a tough year for you, too. I’m glad you have The Rambler.
I just want to send you a hug. I’m so sorry for your loss. Someone once told me that letting our pets go–facing the decision and being brave enough to release them from this life–is our greatest act of kindness, love, and compassion for them.
Thank you for your kind words, and I felt that hug! Tasha was in such tough shape, I knew I needed to let her go–it would be selfish not to. I miss her a lot, but it’s easier now that we’re at our new house.
My deepest condolences, Ellen. We share this journey with you, and so many.
Thank you. I remember seeing you when one of your buddies had just died–it’s just plain hard, isn’t it? But worth it.
Ellen (and others), so sorry to hear about your heartache. Your Tasha was a beauty.
My 11-yr.old Ruby and I are walking that final road right now. We take each day as it comes. She has liver cancer and the most we can do is make her comfortable and coax her to eat. Some days are good, and others, not so much. Still, that love makes the whole process bearable; it’s written into the contract.
So sorry Ruby is so ill. I hope you can remember more of the good than the bad.
Thank you, Ellen. I cherish every moment I have with her. She’ll let us know when it is her time.
🙂 Feeling the love…for pets…
thanks! how’s your corgi(s)?