I Made It!

I didn’t die.

My goal for retirement was to get out alive. To not die while still working. Early deaths in my family haunt me. My parents and four siblings died early deaths at ages 72, 67, 60, 59, 57, and 30. That is unnatural.

Monday, I woke up with a smile on my face. My current goal is good health. I want to outlive my other seven siblings. My chances are good. I’ve recently become a mall walker when it is -10 windchill. Yes, I’m now one of those, I tell myself. Jody and I will be spending the month of February in Florida.  She’ll be working remotely while I’m walking the beach.

Our kids are our retirement plan. Crystel has applied for National Student Exchange in Hawaii for the 2022-2023 school year. We’ll follow her. They should be worried that we won’t leave their basement!

My next goal is to find my rhythm in retirement. Cooking, writing, reading, being outdoors. I want to find out what retirement means to me. Right now, it feels like freedom. A blank page to define myself.

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4 responses to “I Made It!”

  1. mrs d Avatar
    mrs d

    CONGRATS ! ! ! 🙂

  2. Eliza Waters Avatar

    Congratulations, you’re on permanent vacation!

  3. Karen Martha Avatar

    Congratulation on your retirement! Check out our blog on the personal, emotional side of retirement. karensdescant.com

  4. Bev Bachel Avatar

    Congrats! So happy for you….enjoy….and please share details of life along the way.

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